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» Wednesday, June 2, 2010 / -7:55 PM

Relationship Part 4: Ugly Truth

Inspired by the movie: The Ugly Truth played by Gerard Butler and Katherine Heigl, this is the ugly truth of life.

A relationship starts like this:
Planning > Analysis > Confession > *2 choices, Breakup or Happily-Ever-After

So how do one love? The picture clearly shows 2 things: Female love with the brain and/or heart, and Male love with.. you get the idea. Both of these theories are true and had been in our blood and gene that this must continue, in order to achieve the continuation of our species.

Women loves with the brain. There is no such thing as long-term or short-term relationship. Both of the categories of men have to provide the same thing, which is personality, sensitivity and knowledge. All are important for men to get resources. Men must be able to provide women with resources, as to get along with them. Resources are things that can ensure a good life to go on.

Man however, lust is their main achievement. Obtain what you can, and exchange them for lust, or say, exchange your resources, for a women. But men have such thing as long-term and short-term relationship.

Short-term is whereby having what people commonly called one-night-stand or just last maybe a night or two. Long-term however, is having a life with his partner, being able to share ideas and raise children with them.The list of requirements for such candidate differs a lot from short-term, which only looks for what's on the surface. Long-term searches for more personality, and intelligence, but still not losing the requirement of having a good body.

Women think smarter than men, well they love with their brain more. Short-term relationships from the pub or nightclub do not happen that much comparing to men, as women stick to what they search for, and would understand that particular individual before going on a relationship, unless they are so damn desperate and trying to fix their self-esteem, then it's a different story.

Men are not that smart with relationship. Short-term happens fast where men think with their dick when it comes to encountering female with those requirements on their list.

" God Provide Men with both brain and penis, but only enough blood to run one at a time"
Robin Williams.

But one think that makes men smarter than women, is that men can differentiate sex is sex, and love is love, while women make sex = love.

Credit:
Allan & Barbara Pease.

-Sebastian